There is no precise definition of what "normal" sex life. Everyone is doing in different ways: the frequency and characteristics of sexual contact. The frequency varies from several times a week to several times a year. Sexual contact - not necessarily intercourse. It is not necessary and the onset of orgasm in each partner. Almost every person there are periods of cooling in sex. The lack of a single "standard" normal sexual life can be difficult to say whether the pair had a sexual problem or not.
There are three criteria for determining whether the difficulties encountered by the couple, sexual problem:
* The problem is permanent or recurring nature (this is not a random incident, but the situation is repeated for a long time).
* The problem is the human stress: it is its very frustrating and disturbing.
* The problem entails difficulties in interpersonal relations and violates the understanding of sexual partner.
The latter two criteria are most important. For many people, change of libido or decrease in sexual function do not cause stress and do not affect the relationship with a partner. In this case, sex is no problem. Meanwhile, for people who, because of these changes greatly affected, the sexual problem.
Another difficulty is that the sexual problem is not any one reason, but the totality of physiological and psychological factors. Normal sexual function involves the passage of all stages of sexual intercourse:
* Initiation
* Blood flow to the genitals (an erection in men, lubrication and increase the allocation of reproductive organs in women).
* Orgasm
* Condition of pleasure and satisfaction.
Failure at any stage of this cycle may be caused by a complex of reasons, and they all can cause sexual problems.
Role of diabetes, smoking, etc.
By sexual problems can cause such reasons:
* Diabetes
* Cardiovascular disease
* Neurological disorders (stroke, traumatic brain or spinal cord, multiple sclerosis)
* Injuries or surgery to the pelvic organs
* Side effects of medicines
* Chronic disease (renal or hepatic insufficiency)
* Violations of the hormonal environment
* Alcohol and drug use
* Smoking
* Age-related changes
Psychological causes:
* Stress at work
* Worries about problems in the family or relationships with other people
* Mental disorders (depression, increased anxiety)
* The previous bad sexual experience
Very often a chain reaction of these reasons. Concomitant diseases and disorders cause people to worry about their sexual function, and this only exacerbates the problem.
In the event of a serious sexual difficulties, we must first find out whether they relate to medication, violation of hormonal background, neurological problems, mental disorders (depression, increased anxiety), or trauma. If you found any of these reasons, it can be addressed by a doctor. Otherwise, the need to analyze the relationship of the pair. Sexual problems can be situational in nature. This means that the difficulties arise only with a particular partner, and only in certain situations. In such cases, both partners is recommended consultation with a psychologist or therapist.
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